In August, I set some goals. 43 to be exact. A few were big. A number were small. Many fell in the middle.
I did pretty well. I didn’t score 100%, but I came in over 75%. I was never a C student, but I will take it in this case.
Where did I do well? I mostly achieved all five of my big goals. I published My Night with George Clooney. I have unofficially soft launched Cloakroom Style. I roasted a duck. I took a trip to celebrate my birthday. And early next year, I’m taking the boys to NYC. (I’m getting credit for future plans since I only gave myself a four-month window to complete these goals.)
I also have been awesome at picking up the dry cleaning on time. I did all the medical check ups that had lagged. Thanks to Weekend Warriors, I was a home improvement goddess.
Where could I have done better? Well, I didn’t meet any of my three financial goals (stick to a budget, contribute to college accounts, re-fi house). I also failed to go on five dates, though I did go on one and I asked someone to go on one, so I’m giving myself credit for that. I didn’t post to the blog every three days as I aspired, but I did try to write more regularly.
I’m growing my hair long. I wear red lipstick at least once a week. I don’t talk to the boys in a mean voice (as often) when frustrated. Over winter break, we have a schedule to watch some of my favorite (non-R) movies, and I plan to make them breakfast in bed.
The list was random. The list was long. It’s not done, as some items require continued diligence, but it was an exercise worth taking. And now I can begin plotting out what I want to achieve next year. Aside from sticking to a budget, contributing to college accounts, refinancing the house and going on some dates, that is.
3 thoughts on “43 by 43: moment of reckoning”
:-). just 🙂
love this! just the short story alone would have been goal enough for me 🙂
I often find that having the goal–something to aim toward–is as important as checking it off the list.
I’m soft launching (and then really launching) something early next year, too. Tell me about yours! (If you’ve written about it, I’ve managed to miss it.)
Here’s to growing-out hair and new things blooming …